There’s a big difference between dressing up as an expression of gender identity and dressing up as a fetish. The last one has sexual satisfaction as its main aim. read more & leave a comment
This year for Halloween I decided to try for you the cat suit Felicia by Patrice Catanzaro. I chose the wetlook version, with those beautiful buttons that from the pubis go up along the back. The fishnet version is sensual as well, but the wetlook one can be worn in a more casual manner, also with a skirt or a cardigan. The special tissue perfected by Patrice Catanzaro is elastic and comfortable, it wears like a second skin and adheres with wet effect. read more & leave a comment
Big breasts secreting white milk. An ancient and reassuring image. No one is afraid of a lactating woman, and the big breasts of pregnant women is a beautiful object of desire for everyone.
There is a whole series of pornographic movies where the female stars are lactating, and in mangas many women spray milk in the moment of maximum enjoyment. This led me to believe that there was a fetish of the breast full of milk… well, there isn’t. read more & leave a comment
What does it mean to be a fetishist?
Being a fetishist in itself doesn’t mean much. Fetishism is a paraphilia which consists in moving the desire from a subject to an object. To make an idol out of the object of desire, make it the focus of our libido.
More simply what happens is that the sexual desire is poured on a particular body part, an object. This is why I, as a fetishist, don’t want the person as a whole but only a part of it (the feet, moles, nose, hands, hair) or one of its garments (shoes, pants, gloves, etc. ..)
The true fetishist reaches the peak of pleasure reaches its peak only through contact with the object of his passion.
The lover, turned into an object through bondage practices and “fetish” outfits, can become the object of desire once deprived of his nature of autonomous entity within the S/M game.
From the psychoanalytic point of view the work of Donald Woods Winnicott is very interesting. He considers the fetish object a transitional object, that is an object that serves to separate the self from the other person.
The fetish, unlike the transitional object, is full of libidinal energy.
The products mentioned in this post are:
TASCHEN, Eric Kroll, Fetish Girls
Gloves Patrice Catanzaro
Hands Cream Neroli
Handcuffs Maison Close
All available at Black Satin – Erotic Luxury Boutique
A dreamy experience that you’ve never imagined to realize becomes a reality thanks to the initiative of Fetish Night at Misano Adriatico.
An entire cruise ship available to the participants of the event for a whole weekend.
The first Italian bdsm cruise, the Fetish Night Cruise, will sail on June 24, 2011.
Invited to participate are couples and singles, novice or experts in the BDSM world, it doesn’t matter. What matters is the desire to meet and have fun with other participants and those who don’t really know anyone will get to “bind” to the other participants with the help of “guardian angels“. read more & leave a comment
Restif de la Bretonne had a passion in his life, and that passion was women: not women in their entirety, but a precise segment of women’s bodies, the feet.
This is why to indicate a foot fetish you can also use the word Retifism.
As the sadism comes from the name of the great Marquis de Sade and the masochism from the fantasies of Von Masoch, the same goes for the foot fetish.
In his books, “The Anti-Justine”, “Le paysan perverti, ” “La vie de mon père, ” “Monsieur Nicolas, ” Restif de la Bretonne tells about his love for the little feet of his wife and of another young woman. read more & leave a comment
Worn with jeans, it will allow you to be simple and casual without sacrificing the thrilling of fetish.
Always be yourself even in your daily routine. Your life will become even more exciting.
The most popular designer of the BDSM world inaugurates his new “Clementine Little Doll” collection, created by Clementine, his young protege, at her first experience as a stylist.
The line “Clementine Little Doll” showcases the most poetic and graceful aspects of femininity, often forgotten in the tough world of BDSM.
Pastel colors, sweet tastes, saucy accessories to be fetish without sacrificing lightness and the grace of fairy-tale innocence. read more & leave a comment
Black Satin, Ritual the Club and Micca Club present: Torture Garden, an unforgettable fetish weekend
The Torture Garden is the historic club opened in in London in 1990 that became a place of worship for lovers of fetish, bdsm, body art and alternative lifestyles.
The Torture Garden was created as a space where to freely express one own sexuality as well as artistic and body discovery, beyond any limit imposed by social conventions.
While in its early years the club was regularly risking closure by the police, it is now recognized as a legendary institution by Time Out magazine. read more & leave a comment